Workshops and intensives
I did not hope my way into it. I had a method.
After I was widowed I decided that finding love again was a serious undertaking and would be treated as one. Over two years I interviewed two hundred men and met about sixty of them in person. I met my partner at sixty two. This program is what I learned.
This is for you if
- You are single and you would rather be with the right person than with someone
- You are widowed or divorced and do not know how to begin again
- You keep attracting a type that has never once worked out
- You are tired of advice from people who have never had to do this
Getting honest about what you actually want
Almost everyone begins with a list that is half inherited and half performance. We take it apart. What is genuinely non-negotiable, what you have been calling non-negotiable because someone once told you it should be, and what you have been quietly settling for because you did not think you could ask.
Clearing what is disqualifying you
This is the part that separates this from ordinary dating advice. If some part of you concluded long ago that you are too much, or too old, or not the kind of person this happens to, no amount of technique will get past it. It shows in the first ninety seconds of meeting someone. So we go and clear it, using the same deep work I use for anything else.
Then the practical method
Where you actually look. How to write about yourself so that the right person recognizes themselves in it and the wrong one does not bother. How to tell within two conversations whether someone is genuinely available, which is the single skill that saves people the most years of their life. And how to stay yourself while you do it.
Format
Run as a private intensive, one to one, or as a small group program when one is scheduled. Ask and I will tell you what is running.
The love you are yearning for is not gone. It is just buried, and I know exactly how to dig it up.
Start with a free 15 minute call
We talk, you ask questions, and you decide if this is right for you. No pressure either way.