Walnut Creek, California
You do not want more dates. You want the right one.
You are perfectly capable of getting a date. That has never been the problem. The problem is that they keep being the same date, wearing a different face, and you can feel yourself getting tired.
This might be you if
- You are good at the first three months and it never survives the fourth
- You have a type and your type has not been working
- You have started to wonder, quietly, whether you are the common factor
- You would rather be alone than do the wrong one again
I did this as a method, not a hope
After I was widowed I treated finding love the way I would treat any serious undertaking. Over two years I interviewed two hundred men and met about sixty of them in person. I was not being romantic about it. I was being thorough, and I found him at sixty two.
Two things have to move together
Most people are given one or the other. Either the practical work, meaning where you look, what you say, how you read someone early, or the inner work, meaning what you believe you are worth and what you unconsciously screen out. Do only the practical half and you will get better at attracting the same person. Do only the inner half and you will feel wonderful and stay home.
What we do together
We get precise about what you actually want, as distinct from what you have been settling for or performing. We clear whatever is quietly disqualifying you from it. And we build the practical approach, including how to tell early whether someone is available, which saves people years.
How I would work with this
The love you are yearning for is not gone. It is just buried, and I know exactly how to dig it up.
Start with a free 15 minute call
We talk, you ask questions, and you decide if this is right for you. No pressure either way.